Thursday, May 11, 2006

Insecurity...

Something which most of us has the fear for.

Love can be so strong yet are threaten by insecurity.
Insecurity makes you sick in the mind and makes your heart ache.
It has been said that a gal's instinct is always correct.

A person may be next to you and how you know he is not cheating on you. I guess this is when trust plays its part. You may trust a person, but what if you are betrayed before. Will the trust be there?

History maybe history but it sure haunt you, and stayed in your mind that it actually happened in reality. No wonder some believe that once the trust is broken, it can never be mend. You can sure earn someone trust with your full effort but it just takes a mistake to blow everything away.

The Simplest Things In Life Became The Most Complicated by loving a person....

Wednesday, May 10, 2006

Love could not be define by words...

Love makes a person sad, happy, insecure, feeling butterfly in their stomach, betrayed, excited....

Those who are in love will look forward everyday to meet the person they love. Talking to them will make them feel butterfly in their stomach. Your heart skips a beat when you are noticed. Soon you will be the love birds so close together and could not survive even a day apart which seems like years...

But everything sweet also comes with something bitter ...Understanding each other and the argument. The test you have to pass thru after all the sweetness and excitement. The successful one will pull it thru but the one that failed will be left behind.

And the most important part trusting each other. Often trust is being taken for granted. One will not cherish the things they have until they really lost it and are too late. Not like a song you can rewind. What have been done and spoken cannot be rewind.

How sure one can be that the other half is theirs for the rest of their life as per the wedding vow they say in front of all their friends and family. Will your partner fall in love again with another person? Will you fall in love with another person? I guess there are no words which could guaranty this or hold one back. But I do believe if the person fallen out of love, it means the end. No point to hold the physical person with you when the mind and heart is not with you. Let him go and everyone's life will be much happier.

The world now is so much different. Divorce is a norm and no longer something embarrassing... One can fall in love with anyone...this is uncontrollable. Let love fly freely, follow your heart...Growing old with the person you love is the best part of life. Will this be a big challenge to all....

Never to live your life full of regrets, looking back on all the what if...you only live once, cherish and live it to the fullest....